The Other Woman-Understanding Her Role in His Midlife Crisis (and Why She’s Not Your Real Problem)
If your husband is in midlife crisis and there’s an affair partner in the mix, it probably feels like she is the biggest obstacle in your marriage.
We know how consuming that can feel. Your mind spins with thoughts like:
She’s prettier.
She’s better.
He must be happier with her.
Those thoughts hurt. They keep you awake at night. They make you feel like your entire marriage has been replaced by someone else.
But here’s the truth most women miss: the other woman is not your real problem.
Why She Feels So Powerful
When there’s an affair, your brain makes her the symbol of everything that’s gone wrong. She becomes the embodiment of your pain, your fear, your insecurity.
But she’s not the root of his midlife crisis. She’s not the reason he’s confused. And she’s certainly not the key to your healing.
That’s why obsessing over her never brings peace. It only drains you more.
The Trap You Can’t Afford to Fall Into
When you focus on her, you can end up stuck in three deadly mistakes:
Fighting her.
Competing with her.
Exposing her.
Each of those keeps you locked in a battle you can’t win — because it’s not actually about her.
The real work is shifting the focus back to you.
A New Way to Respond
Here’s the good news: you don’t have to stay stuck in that spin.
In our workshop, we’ll walk you through a simple 4-step tool — what I call the 4 C’s — that helps you calm the noise, steady your thoughts, and shift your focus in real time.
This is a great tool to use when you feel consumed by her, and it works.
Join us for The Other Woman Workshop
On Wednesday, September 10th, we’re hosting a live workshop called:
“The Other Woman: Understanding Her Role in His Midlife Crisis (and Why She’s Not Your Real Problem).”
In this workshop, you’ll learn:
The lies we tell ourselves about the affair partner (and how they keep us stuck)
3 Deadly Mistakes to Avoid when there’s another woman involved
Why affairs fall apart – and how to spot the cracks
Signs of collapse you might be missing
Playing the long game – why patience and strategy matter
Practical tools to manage your mind, stop those ruminating thoughts to protect your peace and power, even when she’s still in the picture
Ask your questions live (or submit them ahead of time for privacy)
Plus you’ll receive our 25 page companion guide on the day of the workshop
You’ll walk away with clarity, practical action steps, and a 25-page companion workbook to guide you in finally letting go of the thoughts that keep her running your mind.
The Details
🔟 When: Wednesday, September 10th — 4 PT | 5 MT | 6 CT | 7 ET
🎥 Replay: Available for a limited time after the workshop
📖 Includes: 25 page Companion Workbook
This workshop is over. But there will be a replay for sale soon!
If you’re scared to join because you think focusing on her will just make it worse, let me reassure you: this is not about giving her more power. It’s about giving you relief, freedom, and peace of mind.
Don’t let fear hold you back.
This is your chance to breathe again.
💌 If you’ve been stuck in the exhausting loop of comparing yourself to her, wondering what she has that you don’t, or feeling like she’s taken over your marriage, this workshop was made for you. The Other Woman will give you relief, clarity, and tools to quiet your mind so you can finally breathe again.
You don’t have to carry this weight alone.