Welcome to the
Standing Spouses Starter Kit
A special bonus for readers of What’s Wrong With My Husband?
Take a moment. Breathe.
Whether you’ve just started the book or already made your way through several chapters, I want you to know this:
You’re not alone anymore.
The very fact that you picked up this book means you’re searching for strength, clarity, and a way forward. That’s why I created this Starter Kit - to walk alongside you in this deeply personal season.
Bonus Videos
These bonus videos and tools are private and heartfelt. You won’t find them on YouTube or Instagram. They’re designed to support your next steps, wherever you are in your journey.
With some of the videos, you’ll also find a companion worksheet to help you pause, capture your thoughts, and apply what you’re learning. You don’t have to fill in every line -even one reflection can shift the way you feel.
And along with the videos, you’ll receive the Companion Workbook that pairs with What’s Wrong With My Husband? — a place to reflect, process, and begin turning the words on the page into healing in your life.
Inside the Standing Spouses Starter Kit
📘 The Companion Workbook
A printable workbook that goes hand-in-hand with the book you purchased. Inside you’ll find reflection prompts, journaling space, and simple tools to help you process your emotions and grow stronger as you move through this season.
🎥 Video 1: The Power of Standing
Why loving him isn’t weak — and why standing is actually one of the bravest things you can do.
This video reframes what it means to be a standing spouse and gives you hope that you’re not powerless in this storm.
🎥 Video 2: The 4 C’s — Shifting Negative Thoughts
Learn a simple, four-step process — Catch, Challenge, Calm, Create — to stop the doom-and-gloom thought spiral and begin creating new, empowering pathways in your mind.
Includes a worksheet to help you walk one painful thought through the 4 C’s.
🎥 Video 3: The Other Woman — What You’re Really Up Against
If there’s an affair partner in the picture, she may feel like the biggest obstacle in your life right now. This full 140-minute workshop with myself, Jenn, and Grace will help you understand why she’s not actually the problem — and how to stop giving her your peace.
Comes with a 25-page workshop workbook to help you shift the comparison cycle and reclaim your calm.
🎥 Video 4: What’s Next — You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
A gentle invitation into the Resilient Hearts Membership, where you’ll find ongoing coaching, tools, and a private community of women who truly understand what you’re going through.
This is just the beginning.
You now have:
What’s Wrong With My Husband? (your book)
The Companion Workbook
4 private videos with their own worksheets
The full Other Woman Workshop with a 25-page workbook
And when you’re ready for deeper support, more tools, and weekly guidance, you’ll find it waiting for you inside Standing Spouses Resilient Hearts Membership.