RESILIENT HEARTS MEMBERSHIP

Hope Beyond Heartbreak

Your Lifeline to Surviving Your Husband's Midlife Crisis

When your husband’s midlife crisis turns your world upside down, it can feel like you’re drowning in heartbreak and confusion. The Resilient Hearts Membership is here to throw you a lifeline. This transformational program provides ongoing support to take you from the emotional wreckage of today to the confident, empowered woman you were meant to be.

This isn’t just a course. It’s a continuous journey toward rediscovering hope, strength, and clarity—even in the midst of chaos. Learn new strategies and skills that help you right now with your midlife crisis husband.  Dealing with a husband in midlife crisis is not intuitive, you need my proven skills and techniques to survive this - what worked in the past does not work now in midlife crisis. 

Is This You?

You feel like a puddle of emotions, unsure how to take your next step.

Your husband’s behavior has changed so drastically you barely recognize him.

You want to save your marriage but don’t know where to start.

You’re questioning everything—your marriage, your self-worth, your future.

You’re ready to feel confident and in control again.

If this resonates, you’re not alone.
And you’re in the right place.

If I hadn’t done it myself, I probably wouldn’t believe it was possible.

When my husband moved out, after 23 years of marriage, I found myself in a dark hole. I was curled up in the fetal position and I just couldn’t find motivation to do anything. And while I tried to be strong for my kids, I didn’t feel as strong as everyone was telling me I looked… instead, I felt robotic, hollow and worried that my best days were behind me. I wanted to love life again but I didn’t know how. I wanted to stand for my marriage even though everyone was telling me to leave it.

Fortunately I discovered life coaching and transformation through trauma. The tools were so powerful that I decided to devote my career to helping other left behind spouses genuinely love their lives again, too. None of us need to settle for a “new normal” that’s less than what we want and that includes you!.

What You’ll Gain as a Member

The Resilient Hearts Membership is designed to meet you where you are and guide you toward the life you deserve. With ongoing resources, live coaching, and a supportive community, you’ll have everything you need to navigate this challenging time.

Love From our Members

“This program has been a lifeline for me. I am so grateful to have received the email the day I did that there were openings available! And I am so glad I acted on it. This is a place where I have learned so much! I have also been cheered and supported and I know I am not alone on this very hard journey.”
— Erin
“I’m grateful to have found this group—a place where I’m heard, understood, and supported without judgment, where I’m reminded to focus on myself, and where the person in MLC isn’t blamed, but approached with understanding. We work toward healing and growth, while it is ok to stand and also ok to vent.”
— Yvonne

Access to the 5-Phases- Hope Beyond Heartbreak Course

Phase 1 - Understanding the Midlife Crisis and What to Do Right Now

By the end of this module, you’ll:

  • Identify the key signs and characteristics of a midlife crisis in your husband, using self-assessment tools and reflection exercises.

  • Feel validated as you uncover the "why" behind his behavior.

  • Build a checklist of 5 common signs and 5 typical characteristics of a midlife crisis to keep you grounded in reality.

  • Mapping the Terrain: Emotions During the MLC Time -How to Process Your Feelings 

  • Learn the Resilient Daily Rise Routine

  • What is Standing? Why do it? What to say to family and friends who don’t understand.

  • Setting Your Journey Up for Success - The 5 Best Things You Can Do Right Now 

  • Emergency Kit - What not to do right now, what you should start doing right now 

Phase 2 - Protecting Your Emotional Well-Being: How to Feel Better Right Now

By the end of this module, you’ll:

  • Discover the 5 most effective actions you can take to safeguard your mental health during this challenging time.

  • How to handle the fear – techniques and strategies for keeping your mind quiet

  • How to feel better - what to do when you’re in a funk

  • Loveability and Worthiness

  • Learn the Resilient Hearts Model – the key to everything!

  • Create a personalized action plan to ensure you’re prioritizing yourself.

  • Use reflective journaling and progress check-ins to track your emotional growth.

Phase 3 - Navigating Difficult Relationships and Conversations

Learn how to:

  • Speak to your husband in ways that de-escalate arguments and foster understanding.

  • Navigate conversations with calmness and clarity, even when he’s pushing every button.

  • Know how to handle talk of filing and divorce, I give you a script on exactly what to say to help delay the process; what to say to attorney, how to handle mediation- if it even gets that far.

  • If you do get divorced, why it doesn’t matter

  • Learn the Grounded Response Method – comes in handy for all important discussions with him.

  • How to deal with the affair partner – why she isn’t important, what to say to him, how to manage your thoughts about her, how to talk to him about the children and the affair partner.

  • How to handle - anniversaries, dating anniversaries, and other situations

  • How to live in limbo

  • When you can’t take it anymore - what to do before you decide to file for divorce, the deciding test

Phase 4 - Reclaiming Your Confidence: Project You

You’ll:

  • Learn the how of letting go and detaching, so you can move forward with your life and still stand for your marriage.

  • Feel it to heal it- the emotional backbone of self

  • Real vs Fake - how to stay grounded

  • Mastering emotional imbalance

  • Learn how to hold space -what that exactly means.

  • Rewiring your mind

  • Rediscover who you are outside of the marriage.

  • Build daily habits that strengthen your resilience and self-esteem.

  • Reclaim your power

Phase 5: Thriving, Not Just Surviving: Creating Your Future Self

Finally, you’ll:

  • Shift your focus from "survival" to creating a fulfilling life—with or without him.

  • Learn how to use the Think, Love, Thrive Framework to keep thriving, no matter what the future holds.

  • Learn how to “Change Your Past.”

  • Learn “how to coach yourself,” through any challenge, now that you have the skills!

Ongoing Monthly Support

  • Live Weekly Coaching Calls: Receive expert guidance and answers to your questions in real time.

  • Fresh Monthly Resources: New tools, action plans, and mini-trainings tailored to your journey.

  • Exclusive Workshops: Deep dives into specific challenges, led by guest experts or tailored to member needs.

  • Private Community: Connect with women who truly understand your journey. Share, learn, and grow together in a safe, supportive environment. (This is a separate Resilient Hearts Community - more intimate with women who are learning with you.)

Why This Membership Works

The Resilient Hearts Membership combines expert coaching, a supportive community, and actionable strategies to ensure real transformation. It’s not just about learning—it’s about integrating these tools into your life for lasting change.

Here’s What You’ll Get:

  • Access to the Resilient Hearts Course, delivered module by module to keep the process manageable and actionable.

  • Weekly live coaching calls to keep you on track and supported.

  • A private community of women who get it and have your back.

  • Regularly updated resources and bonus content to address evolving needs.

  • Short and Manageable Lessons: Most videos are just 5-7 minutes long to fit into your busy schedule without feeling overwhelming.

  • Convenient Access: All live sessions are recorded so you can watch later on your own time.

Results You Can Expect

  • A clear understanding of what’s happening in your husband’s midlife crisis and why it’s not your fault.

  • Confidence in your ability to handle this challenging season.

  • Tools to protect your emotional well-being, no matter what he does.

  • A renewed sense of hope and purpose in your life.

More Love From our Members

“Oh my gosh! This group has helped ground me when I spiral into a crazy person! I’ve watched the living in limbo video everyday for over a month! The worksheets have helped me to reflect on why I feel the way I feel and the resilient hearts model has helped me reframe some of the worst of my thoughts that my brain tries to tell me are facts (they aren’t). The support of other people in the group and the coaches have helped me a lot. My therapist thinks this was a super positive program for me to join!”
— Tracy
“The Standing Spouses program has helped me more than I could have ever imagined! Before joining, I was sad, hurt, lost, and at rock bottom! This program has taught me so much about MLC, communication, marriage, and myself! I highly recommend this program! I truly don’t know where I would be without it!”
— Erica

Join Today and Take Back Control

Your journey to hope and healing starts here. The Resilient Hearts Membership isn’t just about surviving—it’s about thriving. Spots are limited to ensure personalized attention for every member.

Don’t wait for things to "get better" on their own. You deserve peace and clarity now. There is so much hope for your marriage. I know it doesn’t feel like it but there is!

Even More Love From our Members

“The Standing Spouse Program gave me the most wonderful feeling of being supported on this very lonely journey of Mid Life Crisis. and maybe it was this support that got me out the wallowing and moping around to feeling good about myself and my future happiness. The lived experience of Amy, Jennifer and Grace has been gold, their advice resonates well with me”
— Judy
“This program has gotten me through and will continue to get me through so many tough moments. I have read so many websites, books, joined so many programs and workshops. This program is where I feel the most supported and hopeful about the future. I know that no matter what I am feeling or going through I have a group that I can always rely on for support and good advice. I would hands down choose this program and community over all the other ones I have done. I feel consistently cared about and supported being myself. It is such a relief to have a community that knows what you are going through and understands why you are standing. I have to filter what I say to friends and family that don’t understand MLC, I don’t have to have that burden of filtering with this group.”
— Susan

Perhaps you’re wondering….

  • The program is unique and incredibly powerful. If you are honest and apply what we teach, you will be amazed at how you can transform your life for the better! Our most successful clients are those who desire change and are ready to take action to achieve it. If you have a history of starting strong but not finishing, don’t worry—you’re not alone! In Resilient Hearts, we teach you how to become a strong finisher.

  • We get it. Some people just want to talk about how awful it is to be a left behind spouse. This program is not about perpetual pity-parties. We believe in acknowledging that it’s hard and then deciding to be women who do hard things. Resilient Hearts members join because they aren’t willing to let their husband's mlc define them. That said, all emotions are welcome and it’s ok if you cry. We’re just not going to stay stuck in the sadness. We're busy creating our best lives! I do have fun activities planned as well. Friday night Zoom calls where we laugh about all of the mlc craziness. And no one gets it but us!

  • We’ve designed this program with busy women in mind. And because of that, we give lots of options for support. Just like you don’t try to watch every show on Netflix, you don’t need to do everything inside our program. You’ll pick and choose what works for your schedule and focus on the aspects of mlc and growth that matter to you.

    Members who are most successful carve out 20-30 minutes in their calendars 5 days a week to invest in themselves and complete the application activities in the program.

  • We hear you and left behind spouses have the same concern. For this reason, everyone signs a confidentiality agreement. We do our best to ensure that what happens in Resilent Hearts stays in Resilient Hearts.

  • Resilient Hearts was designed for busy women. That’s why all calls are recorded so you can watch them when it’s convenient for you.

  • You might be worried that you can’t afford the program. I totally understand. That’s exactly why I designed it to be accessible with different support levels and payment options.

    One thing to keep in mind - the women who get the most from this program are the ones who don’t just pay and expect magic to happen… they participate! It’s the difference between paying a little for a gym membership you never use and investing more in a personal trainer so you’ll actually get results.

  • We want to make sure our program is right for you. We only offer women spots in the program if they are a good fit. We want to set left behind spouses up for success so if we don't feel it's helpful, then we don't want to recommend it.

  • We are an inclusive community. If you identify as a woman and a left behind spouse, you are welcome in Resilient Hearts.